Anonymous asked: cont. of the last post from kara
I just dont know what else to do. I want to live on and forget about evrything but he was a part of me and now hes gone forever. Im just so fucking depressed he was my best friend and he was my everything.
You can also get professional help, Kara, and I urge you to look at my hotlines page and get free, confidential help from one of the numbers I have listed there! They deal specifically with death and loss, and I’m sure they’d know what to do <3 I understand that you thought he was your everything, but you have to realize that he is in a much better place now and he’d want you to be happy. It seems like you guys had a great relationship, and once again, I am incredibly sorry for your loss. I wish I could hug you right now, but he doesn’t want to see you upset. He’s helping god out with a job only he can complete, and you should be smiling for him, just as he’s smiling for you, and holding hands with the angels while he does it.
+Anonymous asked: hi my names kara but i dont want to leave my URL for reasons.
i really really need help and my friend told me to go to this blog because she said youre really good with advice so im gonna give it a shot. three weeks ago my boyfriend got into a car crash on the highway with a drunk driver who was somehow going to opposite way. he died and now i just dont even know what to do with myself. my friends have given up because im so negative and my parents dont even know what to say. after the funeral i just fell apart. i feel like i have nothing anymore. i have nothing to live for and i thought he was the one. just please help me
Hi Kara,
I just want you to know that I won’t give up on you like everybody else. I understand that feeling when your friends just don’t even know how to talk to you anymore and your parents have never been in the position and they just don’t understand. I’m really not a big believer in God, but this is how I look at it. It was his time and God could’ve taken anyone, but he chose him for a great reason. Your late boyfriend had a talent that nobody else had, and God needed him for it. You really have to just sit alone and look up at the sky, and tell yourself that he’s there now and not here. It’ll take a lot to get through, but a part of you needs to be practical and you need to tell yourself that he won’t come back. It’s not your fault, it’s not anybody’s fault. It’s not because he didn’t want you or because you did something wrong. It’s just because God needed him, and he’s in a greater place now. He’s watching you, and I’m sure he loves you, but right now he’s holding hands with the angels and you’re sitting and crying. I bet he wouldn’t want that. Do something with your life. Sit up and smile. Work with his family and start a foundation for him. Be the best YOU that you can be. A great lesson can come out of his death, and it’s that life is short. Every second you spend upset, you could spend happy. I know that death is a hard topic to deal with, and it will take awhile to get over, but you will find somebody else. God took him for a reason, and God will you give you another man later in life who IS the one. He wasn’t the one if he was taken away. Don’t think that you have nothing, nothing to live for, nothing to work for, because you do. You have friends, you have family, you have me, and I bet you have a beautiful soul that needs to shine. Only you can allow that. You get to say the way it goes from here out. I’m always here to talk, and I’m so sorry for your loss <3