Anonymous asked: hi i really dont know what to do right now. my sister has been doing drugs and my mom doesnt know but i know she does because i have evidence. do i tell on my sister because im really scared shes gonna go down the wrong path. i dont want to feel like a tattle tale and i dont want to see my mom upset. please just help me
If you feel like your sister is in harm’s way, you should tell your mom. One day your sister will thank you! I don’t know how serious the drugs she’s doing are, but do your research and make sure you know she’s doing this for sure. The worst thing you could do is get her in trouble for something that she hasn’t even done. You mentioned making your mom upset but it’s what’s best. How upset would she be if she found out that you knew all along and kept it from her? How upset would she be if she found your sister in a dangerous physical/mental state? Below are three hotlines that I suggest calling to also help you in your struggle. They know more about drugs than I do and can help you make the right decision:
800-527-5344 - The National Alcohol & Drugs Hotline
800-COCAINE - The National Cocaine/Crack Hotline
800-766-6779 - Marijuana Anonymous
Anonymous asked: what is it like to drink? cause i've never really drank and i sorta wanna know so when i do i know what to expect.. thanks! :)
Drinking can be really fun but can also be really be annoying. A lot of people fake drunk and it’s really obvious, and a lot of people get too drunk and don’t know their limits! When you do, you gotta start out slow so you know what you can handle! The first time everybody was like “ewww beer tastes like shit” but I liked it.. If you have shots or vodka, most likely you feel like this burning in your chest, but it’s a good burn! It’s different for everybody and you’ll most likely feel like you’re gonna throw up, so that just means you have to slow down and breathe a little bit before you have more!
Anonymous asked: how do you say no to drugs without sounding like a chicken or just stupid?
I get asked to smoke alll the time, but I’m usually somewhat drunk so I can just like laugh it off in their face. If not, I’m just like “nahh not tonight” and there’s usually people there who aren’t doing it either!
Anonymous asked: how do i tell people i dont want to drink without having them make fun of me? my friends are starting to do it and its just something i dont want to do.
this is a good question. don’t be afraid to say “no” and don’t be afraid to confront your friends about it. drinking can lead to serious consequences, and sometimes i don’t look at them, nor will your friends. go to your best friend, and casually one day say “hey, you know, so and so, i don’t think i wanna drink,” and of course she’ll be like “what, why not?” and then you just need either say the real reason or come up with something. make sure it’s a valid reason and you can still go to all the parties and whatever with you’re friends, if you want to, and not drink. i know people who do and we don’t love them any less. and if not, just say that if you ever got in trouble with the cops your parents would killl you so you don’t even wanna go.