Anonymous asked: i really want to start talking to this older guy. what are some ways i can start talking to him!?
It’s all about confidence. If you’re confident and don’t care what people think, poke him, like his facebook profile picture, etc. You can also try getting your name out there by mentioning him to mutual friends! If that’s not good enough for you, you can just straight up talk to him. That’s the most direct way! Smiling, trying a little bit, and being yourself are three of the best ways to get his attention for sure!
Anonymous asked: howw many times a week do you do thiings wit a bf?
Hanging out? Well I mean we just started going out, and usually the weekends are when we look forward to hanging out the most, but I mean, I think Thursday I’m going over after school. You don’t have to hang out every day, every weekend, etc. As long as you keep time balanced between your friends, family, and him, you should be fine!
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend forgot our anniversary and I really don't care THAT much but im still kind of....meh about it. should i bring it up or just leave it be?
What kind of anniversary? If it was 1 year, be upset. If it was a monthly one, you can’t be.
Anonymous asked: Well he's older but when we talk he's sweet cute and flirty so maybe I'll just ask him to hang ? I just don't wanna tell him my feelings then have him disappear on me .... He has brfore
Well I think that since he’s come back, he knows what’s going on. He’d be stupid to think that all the feelings are gone. I would ask him to hang out, and see what he says! If he runs away, then he’s not worth it! Don’t take him back!
Anonymous asked: This guy that I've been with before wants to hang out and even tho I'm busy or grounded he always try's to see if he can see me I had feelings for him before but then he disappeared now him and the feelings are back I wanna tell him I wanna see him should I tell him? Do you think he could actually be into me?
Well you just said he wants to hang out and see you so it shouldn’t really be a problem! If he’s asking to hang out even when he knows you can’t, I think he’s into you. Then again, I’m not him! Ask him to hang out when you can and see how things go from there!
Anonymous asked: I rully want to ask a girl what she thinks about me but I've never talked to her and im scared she'll shut me down
You can’t just ask her out of the blue! Poke her, chat her, and get to know her! Then once you start warming up over a week or two, asks what she thinks of you! Get to know if she’s in a relationship or is looking for one, or whatever! Then you’ll see the signs and you’ll know whether to ask or not!
Anonymous asked: Howw many bfs have you hadddd?
Serious ones? Like three. But little stupid middle school relationships? Like a million, lol.
Anonymous asked: Well what do I do when he makes me ok then says he hates a certain category of girls that ii fall in to because of my age fuck
Kind of confused, but why are you with him? He’s purposely being a little brat about it. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure, then you should either A) talk to him about it or B) leave him. I mean you could be the exception, but what he’s saying is pretty rude.
Anonymous asked: I told an older guy that I liked him the nxt time I saw him he acted like he did before like I never told him no awkwardness but recently we started talking about life and stuff he always flirts with me but hasn't said he likes me I'm so lost
Well he knows that you like him, so it’s a good thing you told him that! He flirts with you back because it’s probably true that he likes you too! Guys don’t usually talk to girls if there’s no interest!
Anonymous asked: all my friends have boyfriends, and to be honest i neever really had one:( i want one so bad and just that feeling of a guy thats yours is something i want. but im just not interested in any guy that i know.. im afraid im going to be forever alone
You’re not going to be forever alone :( You can’t predict the future! Try putting yourself out there a little more! Not like a whore, no. Hahah but smile more, give it a little effort! If you’re not interested, then I doubt other people are gonna want to be interested in you! Look around and get to know what kind of type of guy you’re looking for! There’s nothing wrong with a little self-confidence girl!