Anonymous asked: i think im gay but idk how to tell for sure
Well.. I can’t really tell you the answer to that either! You need to listen to what your heart is saying. If you are interested in the same sex, pursue it. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with it and you should feel comfortable with who YOU are.
Anonymous asked: okay this is kinda hard, but uhm im 6teen. been completely straight my whole life like legit i see a girll and its like just another girl no attraction what so ever. my bff shes gay & out abt it. but her i feel like im in freakin' love with her.. like i would be a guy, but she does kinda act like one at times and the way she treats ppl is how i want to be treated like i wanna be with her. but then again that'd be hard since both my parents are completely against being gay/bisexual anything.. /:
I’ve never been in your situation before but I can tell you that you’re almost in love with your best friend because she’s your best friend. I know that sounds kind of weird, but it’s true. You’re attracted to her because you like her. You like who she is as a person and certain things about her, and that’s why she’s your best friend. I feel the same about my best friends, but I wouldn’t want a relationship with them. Because she is gay, you feel like it’s acceptable to like her. You know that it would be accepted in her mind - and yours - and you feel comfortable. However, you have to think about the repercussions. If things go wrong, you could possibly risk losing your best friend. For now, stay on a friend level and if your feelings are strong and this is what you want, then talk to her about it first before you throw this on your parents. You won’t know anyone’s views until you ask! Best of luck and I’m always here<3
Anonymous asked: is it wrong that i have the urge to kiss i a girl, even though im a girl too.
does that make me lesbian?
im so confused. i have a boyfriend and everything but lately every time i get close to her i feel like kissing her.
like legit deep kissing.
Well you could be bisexual, and there’s nothing wrong with that! You’re body might be trying to tell you something that your hearts not! Perhaps, you like guys, which your heart is telling you, but you might like girls as well, which your body and head are telling you! It’s not wrong at all! I mean, I’ve done it .. drunk .. but that’s besides the point! Don’t resist the urge to experiment and find out what you like and dislike in your life! Better to know now! Just make sure that this girls is hinted that you want this. It could turn out disastrous if she does not want that at all! Best of luck <3 Come back with anything else!
Anonymous asked: so i have this friend and i am very hapy she told me this. she said when she watches tv and girls come on, she goes oh there pretty, but im not lesbo because she says she is still attracted to boys. if she thinks girls are pretty and she says it do you think she may be lesbo or bi? she said she watched girls make out once and she said she doesnt want to touch girls.
Just because she says “oh, they’re pretty” does not mean she is lesbian. It’s kind of something all girls do. We compare ourselves to other girls, especially the ones we see in magazines or on television. Also, if she’s watched girls hook up (I’m not sure if you meant like on the computer or in person), it doesn’t mean she’s bi or anything. This is quite embarrassing and everyone pretty much knows, but a personal reference is myself. I’ve hooked up with girls just because, but it doesn’t make me lesbian or bi-sexual. We were drunk and what not, but I would never want to be in a relationship with a girl. That’s just not who I am. Now, being the one actually part of the hookup, and still not being lesbian or bi, shows that her watching of the event is really nothing. She’s telling you flat-out that she doesn’t want to touch other girls or partake in any actions with them, and those are clear signs that she’s just not into it!